Sunday, January 20, 2013

Saving Gear for the Next Generation


            My kids are big on conserving and recycling. Not all of that is from me, they learn about it at school too. They are a little too good at wanting to conserve.

One day I was boxing up a pair of boots that I had never worn but absolutely had to have. I had sold them on Ebay and was preparing them to ship when Adam pulled one boot from the box and said, “Don’t you think you could give these to my wife?” Wife? He was five years-old and concerned that his wife might feel slighted if I sold these boots rather than save them for her. I told him that I was not entirely sure that his wife had even been born yet so I was sure that she would forgive me for selling these boots.

Another memorable conversation I had with both of my twins happened a little while later and had to do with their clothes. The clothes Adam and Drew wear were Alex’s clothes. I saved everything that stayed in good condition in case I had another baby someday. Alex had so many clothes that he has single-handedly outfitted my twin sons quite nicely but when they outgrow the things that were Alex’s and if those are still in good condition I send half to my nephew and the other half to a girl who works with my husband. The boys are okay with this but when it comes down to something that was bought for them, they have mixed feelings. They had some p. j. bottoms that had become ever so short on them so I was preparing them for the trip to one of the two designated sites when I was asked why these clothes were not allowed to be held for Adam’s and Drew’s sons. I was surprised and it took me a moment to answer but by the looks on my twin sons faces, I would have no good response except the one I gave.

“Of course we can keep some of these for your sons,” was my reply and that ended that conversation to everyone’s satisfaction. I did keep those little pants; I am not a mother who lies to her kids unless it is about what they are eating or about Santa Clause. I am truthful most of the time.

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